If you're anything like me mama, then you are a "go-getter", take life by the reins, type of woman, and since becoming a mom, you still haven't changed.
You might not be singing on tour with Queen B, or walking side-by-side down the red carpet with Idris Elba (yet....LORD, that man is FINE) , but you still have A LOT of dreams within your heart that you just can't let go of...
Nor should you!
What I have come to learn is that success doesn't flow to the woman or #Mommyboss who is TIMID with her dreams and then coming true, but the QUEEN who stays the course and doesn't let time or life events (aka your children) side-track her from moving towards those dreams EVERY. SINGLE. DAY.
Little or BIG step... it truly doesn't matter.
The only thing that does is the fact that you are COMMITTED to NOT staying in the same place you were yesterday.
So let me share with you some simple Tips from life experience that I personally use and coach my mama-clients on, to show them how they too can move closer to that AUDACIOUS dream within them, along-side #SLAYING modern motherhood & life:
1. STAY FOCUSED on the PRIZE at hand... not the LENGTH of time it will take.
No one said it would be easy to pursue your dreams as a mom (and wife), but who cares?!? If you want it bad enough, you will focus on what DRIVES you forward, not what is "holding you back".
2. SELF-CARE, PERIOD. - A Badass #Mommyboss who Slay's Biz & Life ALWAYS takes good care of herself throughout the ENTIRE JOURNEY!
Simply put, you are only going to be as good as how you treat yourself & feel. QUEEN-UP and get yourself some feminine radiance-time put back onto your calendar! You deserve it.
3. ASK YOURSELF ONE SIMPLE QUESTION each day before hopping out of bed: WHAT IS ONE THING I CAN DO TODAY (big or small) that will get me closer to the woman I desire to be?
I's simple... little steps bring you to your destination.. not standing still! Put one foot in-front of the other and make moves boo! Time is tickin'...
4. STAY IN YOUR OWN LANE. Comparison truly does KILL DREAMS faster than anything else out there boo!
No one ever does things in the same way, length of time or "flava" as you do mama. Stop looking over at every Susie, Nancy and Latavia are doing with their time and FOCUS ON YOURS! You got big things to create.. focus on that ONLY!
5. Who can HELP YOU... no one said you have to transform your life & reach your goals alone.
This is a present FACT. It will take you MUCH LONGER and stress you out 100000000x more if you try and guess you're way to the top. Take it from me boo.. it's a waste of our precious energy and time.. and boy, don't us mama's know we do not have that to waste!
6. SAY NO to what doesn't serve you or your Sacred Time. You will need as much of it to reach those BIG dreams!
I like to call this with my clients, Sexy Boundaries... they are "SEXY" because they are only the ones that you WANT to set up boundaries around, not what you were told to do or though you "should" have them around. Use your power and just say NO to anything that isn't in-line with where you desire to go. No guilt or shame here mama.
I would love to hear from YOU mama, what is the 1 tip from what I listed above that you will take away from this post and IMPLEMENT immediately? Let us know in the comments!
As always, you are a QUEEN... never forget you are WORTHY of your dreams & desires!
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